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OK so maybe I won’t see any doggie baby showers any time soon, but for many of us, pets are members of our family. So it makes sense to get them gifts, too!

I was asked to go shopping for a gift basket recently and report my experiences for a Collective Bias project. It occurred to me that if I didn’t have a dog, I’d have no idea what to get someone who was getting a new puppy. Just like I have no idea what human babies need so I normally get a gift card or go off their registry! Since puppy registries aren’t in vogue, here are some helpful hints:

1. DO find out what breed your friend is getting. Is it large? Small? Does it have hair? (it wouldn’t make sense to get a brush for an Italian Greyhound, for example–I never brush mine because their hair is extremely short)
2. DON’T buy clothes unless you get specific instructions on size. I am actually unable to get clothes at the regular store because the Italian Greyhound body is so unique – anything cut for regular dogs would fit very poorly.
3. DO buy bandanas – they are super cute and since they go around the neck they fit a much wider variety of sizes.
4. DON’T buy collars unless you are sure of the kind that they normally wear. Again, my Italian Greyhounds need a martingale collar since their heads are actually smaller than their necks and they would slip right out of a regular collar.
5. DO buy collar charms or barrettes (if it’s a female dog with long hair).
6. DON’T buy dog food. It is harmful for dogs to switch foods all the time, and most owners are picky about what they feed their furbabies.
7. DO buy treats – especially in the puppy stage when they are going to training classes, a wide assortment is needed.
8. DON’T buy toys with stuffing, unless you are sure that their dog is a light chewer. It’s the equivalent of buying a human child a drum set.
9. DO buy toys that are “stuffing free,” or hardy.
10. DO have fun! There are so many cute pet items available, it’s fun to shop for them.

This shop has been compensated as part of a social shopper insights study for Collective Bias. #CBias

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With the holiday season approaching, many of us like to splurge on food items–whether using them to cook special meals, as gifts, or to treat ourselves. I’ve always been intrigued by olive oils, so I was glad when I had the chance to learn more about how to taste olive oil.

To taste olive oil properly, you need two things–good olive oil (like Carapelli–DH will tell you that the stuff from Costco is generally not the “good” stuff LOL) and a small, stemless blue glass. However, I didn’t have a stemless, blue glass, so I used a shot glass instead and just ignored the color of the oil (did you know it has no bearing on the flavor of the oil?)

Begin by warming the oil in your hands through the glass. Then, commence with The Four S’s–Swirl, Sniff, Slurp, and Swallow.

1. Swirl. When you swirl the olive oil in the glass, you release the aroma of the oil’s esters.
2. Sniff. Once the aromas are released, it’s time to sniff! I think it’s the first time I’ve ever actually smelled olive oil, and it was a bit stronger than I anticipated but made me hungry. I inhaled deeply as instructed. There’s a lot more going on there than you’d think.
3. Slurp. This is starting to remind me of wine and beer tasting! To slurp, sip the oil along with some air, which emulsifies the oil and helps spread it throughout your mouth. I did sense some peppery notes, although very faint.
4. Swallow. OK this is a bit tough, but I did swallow a little bit of it. I did not notice any peppery or stinging sensation, which was a question asked in the instructions.

Overall, the Carapelli oil was not objectionable. I’ve had a lot worse, that’s for sure! And, I was glad to find out that it’s 100% Italian, and organic! Now that I know how to taste oil, I can’t wait to try the ones that are in my cupboard, and I’ll also feel more confident when shopping at those fancy kitchen stores

If you’d like to try the Carapelli, the company is offering a $1.00 off coupon:

$1.00 OFF coupon at www.CarapelliUSA.com

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Tailgating time is here, and Hass Avocados is celebrating by holding a Kick Off with Hass Avocados Recipe Contest! Even though avocados aren’t local to Michigan, I totally <3 them.

And not just for guacamole, although I do love the guac–especially on the Guacamole Cheeseburgers that DH made last summer for the burger cookoff. Avocados are great additions to sandwiches and salads since they are nutrient dense and add good fat to your diet. (Want even more ideas? Check out the Hass Avocados website for lots more avocado recipes.)

Unfortunately, avocados can be a bit expensive. Fortunately, you can win a box of Hass Avocados just by “liking” them on Facebook. They are giving away one box a week from Sept. 5 until Dec. 9, 2011. 

Feeling creative? You can also submit your best avocado recipe for a chance to win the grand prize pack.

PRIZE PACKAGE INCLUDES:

(i)Rose Bowl Game® Welcome Reception.
(ii) two (2) standard hotel rooms (based on double occupancy) for four (4) nights Dec 30 to Jan 3
(iii) buffet style breakfast each morning during the hotel stay
(iv) admission for four (4) to the behind-the-scene Rose Bowl Parade® decorating site
(v) prize winner’s choice of attending the Bandfest Event or the Huntington Museum
(vi) photo opportunity at the Rose Bowl® Stadium
(vii) Pasadena, California sightseeing, which may include deluxe air-conditioned motor coach transportation and a professional tour guide
(viii) admission for four (4) to the Tournament of Roses® Parade (grandstand seating)
(ix) admission for four (4) to the Rose Bowl Game® (reserved corner end zone seating), which will be held on January 2, 2012
(x) Rose Bowl Parade® post parade float viewing January 3, 2012
(xi) official Rose Bowl Parade® and Rose Bowl Game® programs
(xii) souvenir name badge.

Seriously, how cool is that? Make sure you check out the official Kick Off with Hass Avocados Recipe Contest page for details (and get your submission in before November 4, 2011).

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One of the reasons people often give for not eating locally is the cost. Slow Food USA is hosting a campaign to help show that it IS possible to eat healthfully on a budget.

On Sept. 17, the campaign will launch with a Day of Action where people can attend any one of  the hundreds of slow food gatherings nationwide. To participate in The $5 Challenge, all one has to do is pledge to cook a slow food meal for five dollars or less, or attend a local event. These events and meals can take any form: some people will host potlucks where they bring food that costs them less than five dollars to prepare. Some people will cook for a crowd and charge five dollars or less at the door. Some people will cook for themselves or their family. The only thing meals need to have in common is to reflect slow food values and to cost no more than five dollars per person. Those taking the challenge are also encouraged to register their events and to share their stories at SlowFoodUSA.org/5Challenge.

What are YOUR tips for eating well on a budget?

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Hello! It’s my last day in Uganda and I finally have a few minutes to breathe. It has been an incredible experience, although I’m ready to see my husband and my two dogs again.

The first week we were here, we visited with the pastors of PAG in Uganda in the Kabale area. During the day we saw their various ministries, including HIV and AIDS support groups. At night we would get together at one of the pastor’s houses and have a delicious meal. It was a time of excellent fellowship.

Both Sundays we worshiped at the local PAG church. When I get back to the states and have access to faster internet I will post video!

This past week was spent saying goodbyes, and also visiting Queen Elizabeth Park. It was a very nice resort compared to the guest houses we’d been staying in. Everyone loved the consistent electricity and hot showers. We also got lucky and saw tons of animals on our game drive, including a leopard, a lion, and a hyena, which is not common to see on one trip. We also saw lots of cape buffalo, elephants, baboons, birds of various kinds, water bucks, Ugandan kob (kind of like a deer with cooler horns), hippos, and crocodiles. On the way back we saw zebras.

Hope to post more next week.

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Packing, working, unplugging for now. Hope to check in from time to time. Will be back by August 5. In the meantime, be sure to check out some of my favorite summer recipes.

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It’s funny now our North American assumptions pop up when we least expect it. For example, I arranged to borrow a wireless modem for my laptop from the Uganda main office. “Great,” I thought. “I’ll be able to blog from the field!” Except there’s a limit on the amount of GBs I can use. I have no idea how much GBs use. Does it make a difference how many photos I upload? Do I need to scale them down? Hmmm. Then, when I mentioned to my boss that I’d have the modem so I could be reached by email, he said “oh, yeah, it will be agonizingly slow since we’re used to DSL in the office. And sometimes you have to go to a different town in order to get service.”

And then, yesterday I received this note from our field office:

“The Uganda power situation has suddenly deteriorated since July 4 when several large generators were shut down over back payments due from government. Since no one is taking the blame (someone else is at fault it seems) it is hard to know how long the situation will continue. Maybe you were already planning to come with flashlights but this development reminded me to remind everyone in the group to carry a flashlight for those times when the power is out at night and no backup is available.”

The things I take for granted!

Be assured, I will do my best to blog from the road. I’ll figure it out. If not, I’ll catch you up when I come back.

Top 10 Tips for Traveling Overseas

1. Remember, it’s not weird or bad, just “different to me.”
2. Pack a toothbrush and Cottonelle wipes on your carry on.
3. Dr. Bronner’s is a great multitasker: great for shampoo, body wash, and cleaning clothes in the sink. I hear you can even brush your teeth with it, though I’ve not tried.
4. Eye drops are great for the dry airplane air.
5. Pack protein bars or powders – just in case.
6. Melatonin can help with jet lag.
7. Pack light.
8. Keep your plane ticket, passport, and credit card in a safety pouch. As long as you have that, you can at least get home!
9. Try local foods.
10. Pepto Bismol is more gentle on your stomach/system than Immodium.

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Here are just a few from the Ugandan staff:

“When I was young, I tried to convince my parents to take me to school, but my father always dismissed my plea, claiming that I would learn to write letters to boys and become promiscuous. Despite my father’s response, my childhood dream remained to learn to read and write” says Epronansi Owino, age 58. With training from CRWRC’s partners in Uganda, Epronansi has already learned to write her name and is continuing to improve her literacy skills!

Epronansi adds that she and many other women in her village are tired and embarrassed by signing documents with their thumbprint wherever they go, instead of writing their names like other people.

Florence has 5 children; one was abducted by the Lords Resistance Army rebels during the war and now she is remaining with 4. “My Parents were not really poor but they were very negative towards educating girls so I ended up being a baby sitter at home and at relative’s homes but my prayer has always been to know how to read and write.” Flo borrowed Shs. 10,000 (USD 5) from the group and is now involved in baking and selling pan cakes as a business.

Alice Akum is one of the members of this group. She and her family were displaced from their home by war and have lived in internally displaced peoples camps for over 20 years. Alice and her husband have seven children.

I am so thankful to live where women are encouraged to attend school and that we live in relative peace. When I travel to Uganda, it is common to speak with people who are just returning home from living in IDP camps; who have lost children to the LRA; who are making a living by being industrious and scratching for every penny. I have so much respect for what they are able to accomplish. If I were in that situation, I’m not so sure I’d be doing as well.

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Note: This is my last deep “orientation” post before I go to Uganda. Over the next month I’ll switch my focus to packing and travel tips, including product reviews.

As I mentioned last week, I had the privilege of hearing Steve Corbett (coauthor of When Helping Hurts) speak at the COSIM conference. Friends of mine know that I roll my eyes when I hear about give away programs to the poor or even sponsoring children (I know, I know, putting on my flame-retardant suit). These things aren’t bad, but sometimes I feel they miss the point. Can they hurt more than help?

When people who are not materially poor think of poverty, they tend to think of a lack of material things, like food, money, clean water, medicine, housing, etc. Yet people who are materially poor describe their condition in much deeper terms–such as shame, inferiority, powerlessness, humiliation, fear, depression, and isolation. Much deeper than just needing “things.” So what do you think people who are feeling inferior think when they are given material things by well-meaning North Americans? (Items they may not even want.)

I’ve tried several times to distill the contents of When Helpings Hurts into a blog post. I haven’t figured out a way yet. Perhaps the closest is this equation, which is included in the book:

Material definition of poverty + God-complexes of the materially non-poor + Feelings of inferiority of materially poor = Harm to both materially poor and non-poor.

That’s all fine and good, you may be thinking, but I want to help. They need help. So what’s the problem? Years of paternalistic handouts have resulted in . . . not moving people out of poverty. Yet it’s SO HARD not to help when confronted with desperate need. Even when we *know* our handouts may hurt more than help. It feels good in the moment.

Even in disaster situations, where handouts are appropriate (as opposed to handouts to people in general poverty), it’s important to look at the bigger picture. What do you think happens to farmers who make their living selling their crops when one part of the country has a famine and U.S. and Canada drop hundreds of pounds of food for free there? Do you think you’ll be able to sell your crops? Would it not be better if the relief people bought the food available from the farmers in the country?

In order to help visitors prepare for this feeling, and to understand the complexities of helping, my organization has developed this handout:

Face to Face with Poverty

Singling out the AIDS orphan

Bill’s participation on a trip to Africa was a tremendous eye-opener. He was appalled at the poverty he saw, andwas particularly struck when he met Gladys, an 11-year old AIDS orphan, who had no hope for staying in school. Upon his return Bill was determined to do something. He planned to set up a scholarship fund that would pay school expenses for AIDS orphans. Meanwhile Gladys’ uncle and aunt were struggling to meet the basic food and health needs of their children, as well as those of Gladys, and her siblings. Recently, the uncle had become sick, and income was difficult to come by. How might Bill’s scholarship program – as altruistic a gesture as it may be – affect the family? If children like Gladys receive a new school uniform, and their school fees are paid what might that mean for children who are not AIDS orphans, but cannot afford to go school any more than Gladys? Understanding the community ensures the best interests of the community inform the solution.

The keyboard that went astray

When Robert went to Latin America to help build houses, he was frustrated when they “failed” to accomplish as much as initially planned. His chance to do more for the people came when Rolando, a young man from the local church worship team, approached Robert and requested a new electric keyboard. Before he left, Robert agreed to send an electric piano back with the next group. Robert’s well-meaning intentions ran into several unanticipated snags. The instrument was taxed coming into the country. Rolando’s real talent, as it turned out was with guitar – not keyboard. Finally,unknown to anyone in his church, Rolando eventually sold the keyboard and spent the money elsewhere. Often the best way to help an individual is to help his or her community put an end to the cycle of poverty.

Drilling a well – for keeps

When Ken and Eunice visited a community in Africa, they repeatedly heard about the need for water. Back in North America, Ken, an engineer, took advantage of his professional connections, and soon raised enough money to drill a well. The group was eager for drilling to start, and felt impatient when things on the field seemed to progress slowly. They found it difficult to understand why so much time had to be spent in community meetings. They had not heard thespokesperson for the Ministry of Water in the region say that 90% of water projects in the area had failed because insufficient work had been done with the community to ensure proper management so the water was accessible fairly, and funds for maintenance were set aside. A project well grounded in a community development approach has the best chance of success.

In Conclusion:

• Do look for opportunities to interact with people living in poverty; learn about their strengths and struggles, hopes and disappointments,successes and challenges.
• Do remember that your greatest gift is yourself, not the material things you can bring.
• Do listen and learn.
• Do support quality community development programs by reputable organizations.
• Do respect and honor other people’s abilities to build on their own resources to solve their problems within their cultural context.
• Do not come with handouts.
• Do not assume the request of an individual is the priority need of the community.
• Do not jump to quick conclusions of need and solution.
• Do not assume you have better skills or more expertise than localcitizens.

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